Saturday, January 19, 2013

Question of the Day... (Is for all my married/partnered readers.)

This is for all my married/partnered readers who have been together for 2 plus years.  How long have you been together with your significant other and how often do you have sex?

If often and frequent, what do you guys do to keep your sex life exciting?

32 comments:

Anonymous said...

We're in our tenth year and we have sex a couple of times during the week and more often on the weekend. We kiss and cuddle often, try different positions and locations, light roleplay and sex toys.

Chris Murphy said...

I JUST ENDED A 9 YEAR RELATIONSHIP A COUPLE MONTHS AGO, AND AT FIRST WE DID IT SOME KIND OF SEX ACT 2 OR 3 TIMES A DAY, THEN AT THE END IT WAS MAYBE ONCE A MONTH.

Anonymous said...

18 yrs. couple times a week

Anonymous said...

10th year together, 6 years married.
About once a week for us, trying to improve. We try to keep it interesting with outfits, different locations, different positions inspired by your sister site, HotAsFuck Blog :)

Anonymous said...

Seventeen years, neither happy with the amount of sex, too often, too little . Outrageous or boring, but alway a mystery !

Anonymous said...

Together for 6 years, married 2. We have sex roughly 5-6 times per week. It just works!

Anonymous said...

Together 5 years, married 2.5. We have sex at least 3-4 times a week. We cuddle and say "I love you" very often which is very important. We will send dirty texts and pics *not always of each other* throughout the work day...sometimes we will invite another to play with us...but only as a couple. No matter what, we always know the importance of being together and that's sexy in our books. -Dan from Canada, age 27

Patrick said...

Married 12 years. Several times a week. We don't need gimmicks, we love one another.

Anonymous said...

Entering our tenth year and mostly on the weekends with a few middle of the night or early morning. We do cuddle a lot. Always touch each other, kiss, and hug.

Will said...

We celebrate 25 years in a few months. We still find each other hot, maintain our bodies, and have an active enough sex life. Over time the need for constant, frantic sex has waned and been replaced with a satisfying comfort in each other's company.

Ed said...

We've been together 7 years and sex is boring. We do the same thing over and over. I enjoy inviting others in for group sex , he has moral hang-ups about it. So as a result our sex sessions are few and far between

Casey485 said...

Partnered for 6 years, sex once or twice a week (always oral, mutual jo, less often anal). We are very affectionate and say "I love you" at least once a day.

Bob from Pittsburgh said...

Together 22 years. As often or as infrequent as the mood, schedules, or life allows. Still crazy in love.

wayneron@comcast.net said...

we have been together 13 1/2 years ...and each day gets better ...we are 60 and 65...and have sex at least 2-3 times a week...or more ...we tell each other "I love you" at least 2 times a day ...sex is always best in the am . i am retired and my partner works the evening shift ...so we are always up for action in the morning...and we like a 3-some for spicing up things...every now and then...

Anonymous said...

33 years together, sex a couple of times a week. To keep things exciting, every so often we invite a willing third party and enjoy it very much

Anonymous said...

Wow, reading your comments gives me hope my monogamous partner of 4, husband of 2 years and I will see an increase in our sex life. Always seems to be an excuse with him that either he is too tired from work or some other event that he doesn't want to. I'm always up for sex and am lucky to get it once a week, it's more like 1 time a month. We are in our young thirties and make no claim to be young but reading how some of my older brethren have more active sex lives gives me hope that his drive will increase with age.

Anonymous said...

We've been together nearly 30 years. We take care of ourselves physically and look after one another in all ways. We are still very attracted to one each other and sex is part of that equation. As Will said above, it's less frantic. We like looking at beautiful guys, using our imaginations, doing a little role playing, and trying new things to keep it fresh. But, I'd say what's really special about reaching this point together is a kind of intimacy that comes from knowing each other so completely.

Anonymous said...

We've been together 5 and a half years, but we don't live together, we only get our weekends together. So sex happens on weekends. We are both in our late 50s and look forward to the next few years passing quickly, so we can be retired and finally live together full-time. As we are older, sex is not as frequent as when we first met, but just being intimate together is enjoyable. We constantly say, "I love you." We email all through the day from work and talk on the phone every night that we are apart. Sometimes we Skype. If gay marriage were available in our state, we would marry and find a way to combine both households right away... but for the present we are looking a few years down the road for retirement to cohabit.

Anonymous said...

18 Awesome years....52 & 45 yr olds. Sex has become less frequent but not less HOT. We were like horned up dogs for the first 4 years, never falling asleep without doing it. Then went to a few times a weeks and sometimes just jerk off together. We survived the circuit days, stay in great shape, travel and have a deep love for each other......

Anonymous said...

As above, together 10 years and married 2. We live apart so sex is during the week end, once or twice. Always in communication during the week and monogamous.

Anonymous said...

Coming up to 10 years together when I never expected to ever have a chance at a male relationship. (I was married and have 2 sons.) We walked around what the other considered hurdles. Honest. Open. Transparent. I'm not perfect, but I work at it. He's 15 years younger, but has the energy to keep up. How can I help but love someone who tells me he is madly in love and wants me... now! Each year reveals I have so much more to learn about him. Sex? Hell, yeah, but mostly weekends due to his job. No issue. He gets creative lunches and job support; we get each other. I got a second chance and I hope I can do it right.

Paul

Luke said...

45 years together and still active a couple times a week.

Anonymous said...

10 years coming up. We're both 42. He hasn't been interested in years. Sex for us has come down to about a few times through out the year. I'm laying in bed with him as I type this and realize there's a 12" space between us in bed. Now that I look at us from this perspective, we're kind of pathetic really.

GuyDads said...

We are on our 10th year together (55 & 62). Sometimes the sex is less frequent, occasionally it will be more depending on life. But the intensity, enjoyment and excitement seems to get better every year. We work a lot on communication within our relationship. We have most of our meals together where we talk to each other and not poke our iPhones. We cuddle a lot. Hold hands while at the theatre. Point out hot guys to each other. We just have a lot of fun in and out of bed together.

Anonymous said...

26 years plus. Once a week (with each other) :-)

Anonymous said...

Interesting how no one says (or is willing to say) their sex life has vaporized.

Anonymous said...

been together 12.5 years and the sex has definitely dwindled. Haven't had sex with each other in months. I think we find comfort in each others company and have found another way of being truly intimate without having sex. That being said. When we do have sex, although while short in length, its truly HOT.

Anonymous said...

Almost 6 years together. Our sex life had completely evaporated .... but after my partner approached me about 6 months ago about 'opening up' the relationship, it's completely changed everything! We've played a few times (apart) and it was hot, but the hottest thing is that our communication has improved 1000-fold, and rather than being jealous of each other's extra-curricular activities, it has actually
improved our sex life together. Simply knowing that we have the freedom to play is like taking the lid off of the boiler - and now we've gone from having sex (together) maybe once every 2 or 3 months, to multiple times a week. Refreshing as hell, and makes me feel 10 years younger! Not for everyone, but it sure as hell works for us!

Anonymous said...

16 years and full-blown passionate sex occurs about once a year with mutual masterbation sessions about three times a year. Other than that unless we invite someone else over (about 2x a year)we sleep in separate rooms.

Anonymous said...

6 years together but live apart so only on the weekends. we do have sex about 2-3 times each day on the weekend to make up for the lack of during the week. Kind of wish we did more stuff but we are almost always anal.

Anonymous said...

Been together for 10 years married for 6. He's 50 and I'm 38. We have a couple of times a week. I'm not a cuddly type of person but my husband is. I make up for my hatred of hugging and cuddling by kissing him and telling him how much I love him all day long.

Rich said...

My current relationship is 11 yrs and thier is alot of huggs and kisses sex, is once or twice a week.